What we must refuse on the way to achieve a goal
Other people’s expectations, the need for approval and emotional baggage from the past not the best companions on the way to success and achieve a goal. No matter what goal you aspire to.
From someone else’s idea of success
It is the most difficult to get rid of. Because it is deeply rooted in our culture. Only without it a person can fully express himself and can do what is important for him.
It is you, and not someone else, who will have to live with the consequences of the choice made. So why should you live by been guided by other people’s values?
In order to make it easier for you to get rid of someone else’s idea of success. First, you need to understand the essence of your goals. Think about why you want to achieve a goal? What will these achievements bring to you?
From fear of condemnation
This fear for many of us does not give us a chance to try our dreams. The main thing to understand is that you do not have to convince others that your business is important and valuable to you. Try to overcome the constant need for approval from the outside. Those whose opinion really matters to you will surely support you. And on the others, you should not waste your nerves.
Focus on the process, not on the reward that awaits you at the end. You will begin to notice that you are gradually moving towards the life you dreamed of.
From emotional baggage from the past
Sooner or later you will have to let go of old grievances and unpleasant memories. Otherwise, the future becomes too similar to the past.
We often get mad at the bosses who fired us. Try to let go of this feeling and realize that everything was for the best. After all, if this did not happen to you, you could not move to the next life stage.